Preach To Me!
2019-09-21 17:29:47 UTC
The church is sometimes accused of being bigoted, angry,
hateful, arrogant, elitist, and hypocritical. This doesn't
describe the churches I have been a part of, and in fact most
of the churches I know well are characterized by love,
generosity, humility, and the pursuit of godliness. Where does
the negative perspective come from? Why are Christians seen as
mean? Are they just "haters?" Unfortunately, no.
Churches sometimes get a bad rap because Christians, and often
Christian leaders, are dogmatic in all issues, uncharitable in
public interactions, and quick to pick a fight. Ron Edmonson
recently put a label on it. Christians can be "mean."
How is it that a people of faith, a people who have
experienced grace, be so graceless? I feel competent to speak
into this issue because I was for years (and perhaps am often
still) one of those mean Christians. Loud. Arrogant.
Pugnacious. How do we get to such a place?
In short, because we forget grace. We grow mean because we
forget ourselves and our God. We forget who and what we are by
nature and grace and exalt ourselves (sometimes
unintentionally) above others. We forget the Lord who not only
stood for truth, but is truth, and yet remains merciful. The
mean Christian is big on conviction and small on compassion.
But the former should give birth to the latter. Let me explain
by showing the way to put to death a spirit of meanness whole
growing in a spirit of meekness.
Know Who You Are by Nature
There are two things true of every human being. There two
truths should simultaneously give us a sense of respect and
love toward others while leading us to a place of humility
regarding ourselves.
First, you, and everyone else, is made in the image of God.
The imago dei is imprinted into the soul of every man, woman,
and child. This is part of the common ground upon which we all
stand and should relate to one another. The wicked and the
righteous, the right and the wrong, and believers and the
blasphemous are all image bearers and because of this they are
worthy of respect and love. God is our Creator, whether we
confess this or not, and because all are his we must treat
them as such. How do we treat that which belongs to God?
Carefully and thoughtfully. This doesn't mean we never speak
hard words, rebuke, or fight. But it requires that when we do
such things we do so with care and grace.
Second, you, and everyone else, are sinful. "All have sinned"
making us all lawbreakers worthy of condemnation. This too is
part of the common ground upon which we all stand and should
relate to one another. Both the morally upright and the
morally bankrupt are sinners in need of the forgiveness of
sins. This should lead us, especially the Christian, to a
place of humility. We should see that, in one sense, we are no
better than anyone else. We are broken, needy, and helpless
and can only find hope in the offer of grace from God. This is
where humility is born. Seeing ourselves rightly as sinners in
need of mercy, just like everyone else. When we forget who we
are by nature a mean spirit is quick to take root.
Know Who You Are by Grace
For the Christian our identity is not only found in who we are
by nature, but who we are by grace. We are not only sinners,
but sinners saved by grace. We are the church said during the
Reformation, "simul justis et peccator"-- simultaneously
justified, yet sinful. We are sinners and saints. We are the
adopted children of God, forgiven, restored, loved, and secure
in Jesus Christ. This, above all things, promotes humility and
meekness for we know that what we are we are by God's mercy.
There is no room for boasting in ourselves, but all reason for
boasting in the grace of God which is offered to all. Grace
begets gentleness. Love experienced leads to love expressed.
God has been kind to teach me kindness over the years.
Sometimes I listen. When I don't it is because I have
forgotten who I am and who God is. The mean Christian is an
oxymoron. It really is more than that. It's not just an
incongruity, but a betrayal of God and his grace.
hateful, arrogant, elitist, and hypocritical. This doesn't
describe the churches I have been a part of, and in fact most
of the churches I know well are characterized by love,
generosity, humility, and the pursuit of godliness. Where does
the negative perspective come from? Why are Christians seen as
mean? Are they just "haters?" Unfortunately, no.
Churches sometimes get a bad rap because Christians, and often
Christian leaders, are dogmatic in all issues, uncharitable in
public interactions, and quick to pick a fight. Ron Edmonson
recently put a label on it. Christians can be "mean."
How is it that a people of faith, a people who have
experienced grace, be so graceless? I feel competent to speak
into this issue because I was for years (and perhaps am often
still) one of those mean Christians. Loud. Arrogant.
Pugnacious. How do we get to such a place?
In short, because we forget grace. We grow mean because we
forget ourselves and our God. We forget who and what we are by
nature and grace and exalt ourselves (sometimes
unintentionally) above others. We forget the Lord who not only
stood for truth, but is truth, and yet remains merciful. The
mean Christian is big on conviction and small on compassion.
But the former should give birth to the latter. Let me explain
by showing the way to put to death a spirit of meanness whole
growing in a spirit of meekness.
Know Who You Are by Nature
There are two things true of every human being. There two
truths should simultaneously give us a sense of respect and
love toward others while leading us to a place of humility
regarding ourselves.
First, you, and everyone else, is made in the image of God.
The imago dei is imprinted into the soul of every man, woman,
and child. This is part of the common ground upon which we all
stand and should relate to one another. The wicked and the
righteous, the right and the wrong, and believers and the
blasphemous are all image bearers and because of this they are
worthy of respect and love. God is our Creator, whether we
confess this or not, and because all are his we must treat
them as such. How do we treat that which belongs to God?
Carefully and thoughtfully. This doesn't mean we never speak
hard words, rebuke, or fight. But it requires that when we do
such things we do so with care and grace.
Second, you, and everyone else, are sinful. "All have sinned"
making us all lawbreakers worthy of condemnation. This too is
part of the common ground upon which we all stand and should
relate to one another. Both the morally upright and the
morally bankrupt are sinners in need of the forgiveness of
sins. This should lead us, especially the Christian, to a
place of humility. We should see that, in one sense, we are no
better than anyone else. We are broken, needy, and helpless
and can only find hope in the offer of grace from God. This is
where humility is born. Seeing ourselves rightly as sinners in
need of mercy, just like everyone else. When we forget who we
are by nature a mean spirit is quick to take root.
Know Who You Are by Grace
For the Christian our identity is not only found in who we are
by nature, but who we are by grace. We are not only sinners,
but sinners saved by grace. We are the church said during the
Reformation, "simul justis et peccator"-- simultaneously
justified, yet sinful. We are sinners and saints. We are the
adopted children of God, forgiven, restored, loved, and secure
in Jesus Christ. This, above all things, promotes humility and
meekness for we know that what we are we are by God's mercy.
There is no room for boasting in ourselves, but all reason for
boasting in the grace of God which is offered to all. Grace
begets gentleness. Love experienced leads to love expressed.
God has been kind to teach me kindness over the years.
Sometimes I listen. When I don't it is because I have
forgotten who I am and who God is. The mean Christian is an
oxymoron. It really is more than that. It's not just an
incongruity, but a betrayal of God and his grace.